Thursday, January 20, 2011
Quick Update from Mexico
Artemis has been walking since New Years, Max has already taken his first steps.
Max is eating everything under the sun, Artemis likes chicken and cheese.
The weather has been amazing, we're had a few campfires.
Today is my first visit to the internet cafe. I'll post pictures during my next visit.
We think of you often and miss all of you.
See you "soon".
Thursday, December 16, 2010
The Zoo is off to Chiapas, Mexico. See you in 2011 {Travel}
We picked up our new (to us) van on Sunday, got it certified on Monday and packed it up on Tuesday. "Packed" includes; Aries, Reina, Phoenix, Max, Artemis, Ed and I. Needless to say, there isn't room for much else. Alexander is vacationing at Nanna's for the winter.
He have christened our new van "Bucephalus" (the other one was unoriginally titled "Bessie"). It seemed fitting as it was Alexander The Great's favourite horse. We all know how important one's horse is.
On Wednesday, we got the house ready for the winter; all liquids were boxed up, hot water tank emptied, pipes blown out, sump pump heater installed, fridge emptied and the furnace turned off. We then drove to Nanna's house for a "Going Away/Christmas/Kids Birthday" Party.
On Thursday, we spent the morning with the Abuelos and Tia Ilka. In the afternoon, Ed got some last minute errands down and we went to bed early as we head out tomorrow morning, early.
When we didn't have the kids, it took us 4.5 days to get where we were going. This time, we hope that it will take us less than one week. In the summer we drove all the way to Poppa's house (5.5 hours) and the kids did great. Mind you, that was only one day and they couldn't yet crawl. If we're successful, that should have us arriving by December 23. Just in time for the biggest party of the year, December 24!
We won't be posting much (if at all) until our return sometime in March (hopefully). Know that we'll be taking pictures and thinking of you.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Monday, December 13, 2010
In Alexander's Honour
I wanted to post this on December 19th, the one year anniversary of Alexander's passing. However, we will be on our way to Mexico so here it is.
As many of you know, I have been struggling to decide what to do to honour Alexander's life. Many people; plant trees, release balloons, create plaques, raise money, etc... While all are great ideas, none of them seemed quite right for Alexander. I've decided that instead of one unique item or special event, once a year, Alexander is going to give life and happiness every day.
Here are a few of the things that we've done;
- I've started to donate blood. When Alexander was sick, he needed a blood transfusion. I would want other parents to have the gift that we/he got. I can’t imagine what would have happened if someone hadn’t selfishly given of themselves.
- I've registered with the Bone Marrow Donor Registry (http://www.onematch.ca/). The donation procedure has gotten a lot easier over the years and 85% of life saving donations is made via a blood donation. Perhaps I could save a life. I would want the same for my children.
- I have been in correspondence with a woman in Nelson, B.C. whose daughter is sick and she needs breast milk (http://healinganaya.blogspot.com/). Alexander's first meal was formula (my milk hadn't yet come in) and I always wonder what would have been if he'd had breast milk. If I'd asked one of the mothers in the NICU for some of theirs. NEC is higher (in preemies) that are formula fed. Currently, she has enough milk but when we get back from Mexico I hope to send her some.
- For the past year, on a monthly basis I have been dropping off clothes and other items to CHEO (Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario). It feels good to know that children in need will benefit from our donations.
It's easy to remember all that I do have; two beautiful, happy and healthy children, a loving and supportive husband and my health. It's impossible to forget what I have lost; my dear Alexander.
I will continue to strive to do my best for me, my family and in Alexander's memory.
One-Year Check-up
They've come a long way since they were only 3lbs,8oz and 3lbs, 1oz one year ago. Other than that, nothing to report from their visit.
Today Max kept standing up. He loves it and is more confident than his sister. Any day now he’ll be taking his first step. And we thought that we were in trouble before…
On Thursday (December 16), they will be 10 months adjusted, however, as previously mentioned, they’ve caught up to their corrected age (one year).
Today, Ed got the plates, paperwork and certification for our "new" van (yah!). Tomorrow’s plan is to pack and we’ll leave for Toronto on Wednesday. Only 3 more sleeps until we’re on our way.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Making Baby Step(s) and Getting More Teeth
Max isn't that far behind. He can stand for several seconds and is able to walk while only holding onto one of our hands. As well, he spends the majority of his time on his "shopping cart". Pretty incredible considering she's been crawling since July 23 and he not as long (since October 10).
Max has been kind of fussy for the past week. Sure enough, "D" (Top right, beside the front tooth) is just about to poke it's head through his gums. In case you've lost count, this will be number 5. Poor guy.